2017

Inclusion By Bandaids or By Design

So I’ve done a fair amount of work on inclusion. I’m the former director of Yad B’Yad, and – as someone with disabilities – I’ve faced my own struggles.

This doesn’t, in fact, earn you a gold star: it’s exactly the bare minimum that you should be doing.

So what does inclusion look like?

How can I be inclusive?

The first step to being inclusive is – and this may sound so obvious it’s painful – including people…including people who require accommodations as part of your planning process, including the things they tell you in your meeting minutes (even if they’re going to be ‘difficult’ for you to fund, or to ‘incorporate’ into your program), and it means understanding that people who require accommodations are experts on themselves, their lives, and their needs.

But funding is an issue, and we don’t have any Deaf people coming, and why on Earth would we pay for interpreters if there aren’t any Deaf people coming?

Sometimes you have to put the cart before the horse, and let the horse push (rather than pull) the cart for a bit. If your agency/event/venue has – traditionally – been non-inclusive, then you can’t very well expect people who require acommodations to just start showing up…you have to give them a reason to attend outside of you…you have to make it a bit about them. Show that your space is friendly to those with visual impairments, show that you have ASL interpreters on stage and not shoved off to the side, in a poorly lit area, where no one can see them. Make sure that you have quiet spaces where folks who are overwhelmed or who need a moment to regroup themselves can go away from the blaring noise of the DJ/Emcee/Main Event (side note: those brestfeeding will thank you as well).

You can’t expect someone who uses a wheelchair/other mobility device to come first before you build ramps and put in elevators.

Dungeons & Dreidels is my new pet project.

#Inclusion

Mussar Musings

הכרת הטוב
Recognizing the Good / Gratitude

What are you feeling grateful for today?

Have you noticed a difference in yourself through your gratitude practice?

Have any blessings recently come your way in disguise?

כבוד
Honor

What situations might be difficult for you to show honor to someone? How do those situations make you feel?

Have you noticed a change in how you ‘see’ people that you do not know?  Are you less likely now to make snap judgements?

Did you find this Middah to be more difficult than others we have studied?

Are you able to honor and show respect to those who you do not agree with or who do not honor or respect you? Are there other middot you could use to help you do this?

סבלנות
Patience

In what area of your life do you struggle with patience the most?

Do you consider yourself to be a patient person? Would others say the same?

What happens when you lose your patience?

What will you do differently this week to enhance your practice of patience?

How can your patience phrase help you when you’re feeling impatient?

Have you struggled with this middah? Have you found it easier than others we’ve studied?

חסד
Grace

Pay attention to how many opportunities you have throughout the day to do an act of chesed.

How will you focus on your chesed practice over the weekend? How can your concept of Shabbat enhance your practice?

קפה עברית

בזמן כרגע אני חושב שזה די חשוב שהיהודים בארה״ב ובדיאספורה מתרגלים את העברית שלהם. אם המשפחה וחברים שלנו לא יודעים איך להשתמש בשפת אם שלנו, אז זה אחריות שלנו מלמד אותם. אל תדעג אם אתה לא מרגיש שאתה יכול ללמד כמו רב: מה שכן חשוב שכל איש ואישה ישראל מתרגל כל יום עם כל האנשים שהם יודעים. אם יש לכל יהודי את השפת אם שלנו, יש להם את האופציה לדבר עם המשפחה הגלובלית שלנו ואולי זה יכוליות מאוד חשוב לעתיד. אז אחרי יום קיפור יהי ״קפה עברית״ פעם אחת לשבוע – יהיה פרטים בפייסבוק בהמשך.

Fuck Fuckity Fuck Fuck Fuck

That feeling when you're in bed, and over the course of two or so hours you feel your muscle strength totally leave your legs and your hands, and your fingers…so you do your usual tests, the ones you've developed over the past 8 months…and you realize you've lost your ability to snap your fingers, wiggle your toes, even moving around in bed to adjust position is complicated, and you know in about 30 more minutes your legs are going to be out to lunch…but you need to be a functional adult in a few hours for work…miles away from a name for whatever this is that robbed you your mobility.

So once you’ve been a student of @themackayway’s you have this incredible sense of empowerment. Like “oh, I can do that.” I’m starting my new job today (they had called me yesterday to push it off one day) and I was like “I want something special to bring with me to my new job” and I was going to make just a regular #BuJo, but I had been wanting a travelers notebook, but I don’t like buying when I can make, and I was talking with my friend Agnes, so I was like “eh, I’ll wing it.” Now, it could absolutely stand to be slightly more square (never cut fabric when you’re coming off a day of migraines and migraine meds kids) but I am actually quite happy with it. I am going to add a sewing kit in the back (because why not); and despite my fog, the letters of both the bobbins, and the inside products, are all in the correct direction (woohooo). The buttons on it (which hold the elastic) are also very special. I purchased them when I went to Vienna for the first time (or what has been my first trip, and will be the first of many) and got to visit my sister Carina. We found them after a beautiful day spent wandering around the city (we found a flea market for a bit). Of course Vienna is where my grandfather had learned to become a tailor before Kristallnacht, so the trip was memorable and meaningful for so many reasons…and I have been holding on to these (and a few more buttons) waiting for a special use for them…and this felt right. So now, I have my new notebook setup, I am going to make my lunch for tomorrow, get my bag packed, and head to bed…and may you all have teachers like Kimberli who inspire you to go “eh, I don’t have a pattern, I’m not really sure how to make it, but I’m going to look at a few, and wing it, and adjust it, and fudge it, and I’m sure it will come out nice” because having met her has changed my life in many ways that I look forward to sharing with you all in the coming weeks and months ahead. Leila Tov and sweet dreams. Ohh and I added a nice yellow button to the front as a clasp #sew #sewing #design #travel #travelersnotebook #diy

So once you've been a student of @themackayway's you have this incredible sense of empowerment. Like "oh, I can do that." I'm starting my new job today (they had called me yesterday to push it off one day) and I was like "I want something special to bring with me to my new job" and I was going to make just a regular #BuJo, but I had been wanting a travelers notebook, but I don't like buying when I can make, and I was talking with my friend Agnes, so I was like "eh, I'll wing it." Now, it could absolutely stand to be slightly more square (never cut fabric when you're coming off a day of migraines and migraine meds kids) but I am actually quite happy with it.

I am going to add a sewing kit in the back (because why not); and despite my fog, the letters of both the bobbins, and the inside products, are all in the correct direction (woohooo). The buttons on it (which hold the elastic) are also very special. I purchased them when I went to Vienna for the first time (or what has been my first trip, and will be the first of many) and got to visit my sister Carina. We found them after a beautiful day spent wandering around the city (we found a flea market for a bit). Of course Vienna is where my grandfather had learned to become a tailor before Kristallnacht, so the trip was memorable and meaningful for so many reasons...and I have been holding on to these (and a few more buttons) waiting for a special use for them...and this felt right.

So now, I have my new notebook setup, I am going to make my lunch for tomorrow, get my bag packed, and head to bed...and may you all have teachers like Kimberli who inspire you to go "eh, I don't have a pattern, I'm not really sure how to make it, but I'm going to look at a few, and wing it, and adjust it, and fudge it, and I'm sure it will come out nice" because having met her has changed my life in many ways that I look forward to sharing with you all in the coming weeks and months ahead.

Leila Tov and sweet dreams. Ohh and I added a nice yellow button to the front as a clasp #sew #sewing #design #travel #travelersnotebook  #diy

So once you’ve been a student of @themackayway’s you have this incredible sense of empowerment. Like “oh, I can do that.” I’m starting my new job today (they had called me yesterday to push it off one day) and I was like “I want something special to bring with me to my new job” and I was going to make just a regular #BuJo, but I had been wanting a travelers notebook, but I don’t like buying when I can make, and I was talking with my friend Agnes, so I was like “eh, I’ll wing it.” Now, it could absolutely stand to be slightly more square (never cut fabric when you’re coming off a day of migraines and migraine meds kids) but I am actually quite happy with it.

I am going to add a sewing kit in the back (because why not); and despite my fog, the letters of both the bobbins, and the inside products, are all in the correct direction (woohooo). The buttons on it (which hold the elastic) are also very special. I purchased them when I went to Vienna for the first time (or what has been my first trip, and will be the first of many) and got to visit my sister Carina. We found them after a beautiful day spent wandering around the city (we found a flea market for a bit). Of course Vienna is where my grandfather had learned to become a tailor before Kristallnacht, so the trip was memorable and meaningful for so many reasons…and I have been holding on to these (and a few more buttons) waiting for a special use for them…and this felt right.

So now, I have my new notebook setup, I am going to make my lunch for tomorrow, get my bag packed, and head to bed…and may you all have teachers like Kimberli who inspire you to go “eh, I don’t have a pattern, I’m not really sure how to make it, but I’m going to look at a few, and wing it, and adjust it, and fudge it, and I’m sure it will come out nice” because having met her has changed my life in many ways that I look forward to sharing with you all in the coming weeks and months ahead.

Leila Tov and sweet dreams. Ohh and I added a nice yellow button to the front as a clasp #sew #sewing #design #travel #travelersnotebook #diy